Will they continue to allow a culture of anonymity and, in my opinion, sexual shame, or will our foremost gay dating app finally start promoting pride and acceptance? The popularity of Grindr isn’t going anywhere and its developers have a responsibility to the community they serve. Hook-ups and dating should be fun, and we deserve to be safe and respected whilst utilising the best tool we have available. We can build the mutual respect that’s been missing and be kinder to one another. Meanwhile, the rest of us must try to start considering each other as people, rather than categories. Come back when you’ve accepted that using Grindr and being “straight acting” are fundamentally incompatible. The only people who would be excluded by this change are those who still believe there is - and frankly, good riddance. There is nothing shameful about being gay, or about gay sex. The app should require verified names, faces and identification. 6 min My Daughters Hot Friend - 172.8k Views. Naughty America - MJ Fresh wants sex and her friends dad is in on it 6 min. However, even for more established users, a barely functional “This is his address, in case I’m kidnapped!” text to a close friend often has to suffice. Naughty America Nicole McKenna (Nina Elle) fucks her sons big cocked friend14 min. Pandering to closeted men allows shame and bigotry to festerĪs I can attest from my own early experiences, younger users are particularly vulnerable to fake profiles and taking unnecessary risks, having not yet undergone the trial-and-error learning of strategies to avoid them.
People using false identities (catfishes) are so prolific that there are whole forums dedicated to helping Grindr users avoid scary meetings with men who aren’t what they claim. Pandering to closeted men allows shame and bigotry to fester.įurther, the acceptance of anonymity is conducive to dangerous situations.
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